GOD! i am such a good friend right now. my bff & her bf (boyfriend) are fighting & somehow or another i may have worked it all out. i hate his guts but, at least i can put my feelings aside 4 a few minutes 2 help a friend in need. cooler heads prevail & currently i am the coolest head out of the 3 of us & somehow, i may b making this work. i sure as h*ll hope i am cos lindz doesnt need nemore termoil in her life. but, if it doesnt work out, she'll have 2 deal w/it. she needs 2 raise her self-esteem & stop